We have to be willing to accept change! We all have issues and insecurities to deal with, so you are not alone. Though, we can’t continue to blame our circumstances on everyone else around us, and not take any personal responsibility for ourselves. Do other people’s choices affect our lives sometimes? Absolutely they can! Though, we have to make a decision to withdraw from the situation and/or find a way to be successful within it. If the situation is bad enough that it is affecting your personal growth, then get out and start new, but stop blaming others for your lack! Change can be intimidating and scary, but staying where you’re at and blaming others could possibly mean you don’t really want to change.